Monday, February 4, 2013

Chapter 26: Rough


            I sat on the bench, tears streaming down my face, the breath in my chest coming rapidly but in ragged gasps. “Get it together,” I said to myself. Even after all these years he still got to me in the way I hated most. He wormed his way into my heart and broke it all over again. I remember the day he screamed at me in the parking lot- me hysterical and him on an angry rampage. People started at us as he yelled in my face, tears pouring down as I begged him to just listen to what I was trying to say. He wouldn’t have any of it. I reached out and clung onto his arm in a desperate attempt to make him see me. I knew I looked pathetic but I just had to make him realize that I wasn't doing this because I wanted him, I was doing it because I cared for him in a way that I had never cared for anyone else. He had been my best friend, my lover, and my companion for so long that I couldn't bear to see him make such a big mistake.
            He thought I was just the jealous ex-girlfriend that was too attached. I knew what was in my heart and it wasn’t jealousy- it was hurt and confusion, not love. Eventually, he may have realized this, just as I had. He waited too long to tell me he made a mistake, something I realized at the very beginning. His time had come and gone. Like the river flowing into the ocean my water was new and fresh and I had left behind the confinement of the banks for the openness of the rolling tides.
            I lay there on the bench, the tears slowly coming to a stop, my face to the sky. The remainder of the tears mingled on my cheeks with the raindrops. One hand rested on my stomach and the other dangled at my side, brushing lightly against the soft blades of grass. I could see the pre-dawn light coming up over the trees, the stars still sparkling brightly in the purple sky. The warm summer air hung all around me and the cool rain drizzled all over my body. I knew that this was my time. The realization hit me right in the chest and made the breath catch in my throat. Hot against cold. Night against day. The constant push and pull of the natural balance. It was like what was inside me- a natural war. They weren't fighting against each other they were just looking for an inner balance- something nature had figured out very long ago.
So I continued to lie there, letting the rain pour down over me and soak into my skin and smooth away my rough edges. I was like a pebble on the beach of life. At the beginning my edges are rough and raw. But as life comes with its lessons and challenges so does the tide. It crashes down and engulfs the pebble, making it feel as if it is drowning at times, but eventually it fades away. And there the pebble remains- changed and more smoothed by what has happened throughout its life. I finally understood that my pebble just had a few more bumps than some others, but that’s what made me special- I was rough.

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